i received a message at about 3 am tonight, and normally i’d just brush all of this shit off, but this kind of shallow, judgmental person is exactly the kind of person i really, really dislike, so i’m using this situation to make a point.
let me start out by saying i’ve only physically interacted with this person maybe twice. i was drunk the first time and the second time was a run in on my way to the grocery store.
now here is a copy of our conversation:
“Emir Yiğit
I think I’m deleting you, bye
3:06am
Obed DG Cundangan
that was kind of rude but i also kind of don’t care so cya!!
3:10am
Emir Yiğit
lol I added you after you asked a common friend behind my back what sexuality I was, to kindly make friends. rude is not doing a thing when I’ve been nice and invited you to stuff. The non-care feeling is reciprocal, so bye-bye, gay stereotype
3:13am
Obed DG Cundangan
yeah…not doing a thing isn’t rude…it’s just nothing
calling me names and talking shit about me is rude
you have no idea who i am
i honestly don’t really care about any of this and the way you’re acting makes you seem really immature and insecure, so i’m going to stop responding to anything now
but good night!
3:15am
Emir Yiğit
no, you’re right, that is rude. but I’ll keep arguing that the doing nothing is actually rude, or it makes it only appropriate for me to delete you. I dont know, I logged on and tradition here is you have thousands of people connected whom you do not know, I’m trying to be the kindest deleting those I have no idea who they are.
3:18am
Emir Yiğit
being insecure and immature are parts of the human psyche, fairly observable in all your pictures with the same ridiculously tilted lips and resting facial expression.”
and that was the end of the conversation because wow.
k, i was super drunk when you met me but i don’t recall asking your friend if you were gay behind your back. that seems really out of character for me and whoever told you that probably just wanted to make you think i was interested to make you feel good about yourself or something.
now onto why i dislike people like this so much.
1. people delete me everyday and i don’t notice or care. have a little tact and don’t make a point of it, you giant drama queen.
2. this is the person who’d previously started a conversation with “hey gurl what’s up” (to which i replied ‘where did we meet?’) and invited me to a party by saying “we are going to go to this queer party on saturday come with us and we’ll be slutty together” and he has the nerve to condescendingly call me a gay stereotype without knowing anything about me? that’s honestly ridiculous. check yourself.
3. yes you’ve invited me to things, and that’s super nice. but me not inviting you to things isn’t rude. it’s pretty freakin presumptuous of you to say that. you just don’t happen to be very relevant to my life and now you never will be. so yes, it was appropriate for you to delete me, but you didn’t have to be dramatic and rude (a terrible combination) while you did it.
4. i called you immature and insecure because of the way you were acting and coming across. you’re calling me immature and insecure because of my ‘ridiculous’ face. get out of here.
5. a word of advice: grow the fuck up. people like you put people who identify as gay to shame.
/rant over.